Respect for each other is very important for a health relationship.

One way of showing respect is by valuing the differences between us.

There are different types of intelligence. I was getting a battery replaced in my car the other day and the girl (yes, girl) that was putting in the battery in my car told me that her dad was very book smart. He could write a book and tell you how to disassemble a car engine and then put it back together again. But he couldn’t actually do it. She could!

Again, there are many kinds of “smarts.” Some are socially intelligent. They have a natural ability to relate well to others. Other people may not be so good in social settings, but can logically identify a problem, come up with solutions and solve it.

Our vocations differ. Over a period of time we acquire knowledge and develop skills that others do not have.

Here’s the exercise:

What is something each of you knows a lot about that the other knows little about.

What are your unique gifts and abilities?

Teach each other something.

Take time to listen and learn from each other.

Your partner will feel valued and respected.

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